How to tell if a man is interested in you

How to tell if a man is interested in you
How to tell if a man is interested in you

There is no scientific way to know if a man is interested in you. There are many very simple methods of knowing whether or not you attract him, between studying body language and how often he looks. Learn how to read the telltale clues and find out how well you've attracted a man.


Part 1 of 3: observe what he does

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Step 1. See if he's doing you a favor

Does he bring you a coffee? Does he take you home? It is likely that he will not do this just out of the goodness of his soul, unless he is a model citizen. You must no doubt attract her and probably want more than a thank you from you for being so terribly nice to you.

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Step 2. See if he finds all the possible excuses to be near you

Does he offer his services to you for anything from DIY at home to clearing the snow on your doorstep? Is he cooking for you because you have had a rough day? You're likely to attract him if he's around all the time and finds a way to approach you and be with you.

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Step 3. See if it gets extravagant in front of you

A boy who is interested in a girl tends to want to impress her. He may even risk serious injury from jumping off a cliff or running over the roof of a series of cars or anything that gets your attention. If he's not usually a risk-taker, or if he's taking bigger risks than usual around you, he's likely doing it to impress you. See if he's trying to catch your gaze or if he's looking at you after doing his risky thing, if so, he's only doing it to make you react.

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Step 4. See if he's flirting with you

A boy who isn't attracted to a girl doesn't start flirting. If a guy is flirting with you, it's probably to test you and see if his feelings are mutual. A harmless-looking flirtation may hide his fear of rejection if he asks you more directly. See if he's playful around you, teases you, and likes to make you laugh.

Just make sure he's not the type of boy who flirts with every girl he meets. It may not matter as much if he's an incorrigible flirtatious and if it's his way of talking to women as if he only flirts with you

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Step 5. See if he's jealous when you're around other boys

Do you notice his sadness if you go out for coffee or have lunch with a male colleague? Does he observe the people around you? Is he a bit critical of your male friend? His jealousy may not necessarily be obvious, but if he's overtly jealous of the guys you hang out with, he'll notice you're dating another guy or be more aloof if you're making plans with another guy.

Each man expresses his jealousy differently, but this is a glaring clue that you attract him if you realize that he is jealous

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Step 6. See if he gives you any small gifts

It's a glaring clue if he's giving you flowers or cute little items that make you smile or laugh out loud. What else would he bother to find you something to make your day better for? He might seem like he doesn't care too much about this gift when giving it to you in case you don't accept it, but in reality he is doing it because he appreciates you!

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Step 7. See if he's behaving like a gentleman around you

Chances are, he'll be attracted to you and want to get to know you better if he rushes to hold the door for you, pull the chair back to you before you sit down, help you put on your coat, and has other very chivalrous gestures towards you. Just make sure he's not so chivalrous with all the ladies.

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Step 8. See if he is strutting around in your presence

This is an obvious sign if he ruffles his hair, if he collects a speck of dust on his clothes, if he fiddles with his cufflinks, if he readjusts his belt or if he seems to rectify his appearance. close to you. This is a sign that he has a serious crush on you if you catch him overly caring about his appearance, busy looking at himself in the mirror, or generally more concerned with his looks whenever you are around.

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Step 9. See if he walks at the same pace as you, yes, yes

Studies have shown that a boy who is attracted to a girl slows down his pace or quickens his pace to match the girl's. The same boy who walks with girls who are in his eyes only acquaintances does not slow down too much and does not try to walk at the same pace. The next time you walk with him, check out his pace!

Part 2 of 3: Interpreting body language

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Step 1. See if you can catch him staring at you

If he likes you, chances are you might catch him staring at you across the room. You should obviously not insist on checking that he is staring at you, otherwise he will imagine that you are staring at him (which you do, by the way). You certainly attract him if you look up and see him backing your gaze over and over. It's even better if he quickly looks away or looks embarrassed.

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Step 2. See if you can catch him supporting your gaze

If you look down and he keeps staring at you in a way that makes you blush, he probably insists because you really attract him and he wants to get to know you better. If he's more shy, he can obviously look away a bit, but if he's staring at you for a few more seconds, chances are you'll attract him.

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Step 3. See if he turns in your direction when you speak

If he is interested in you, he will turn subtly or more frankly in your direction as you speak. This is one of the basic rules of attraction. If he likes you, he will want to turn his shoulders, face, arms and body in your direction. He is much less interested if he turns away from you or if he stays a certain distance.

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Step 4. See if there is a lot of movement near you

Chances are he is because you attract him, if you see him playing with the buttons on his shirt, fiddling with his fingernails, playing with an object on his desk, crossing and uncross his legs or if he is generally nervous. These are all signs of nervousness and if you impress him he will be restless more than usual because your presence spurs him on.

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Step 5. See if he finds any excuses to touch you

If you really attract him, he will do whatever he can to get closer to you. It could be the light pressure of his hand on your back when you walk into a room, a light tap on the shoulder or forearm, or his presence so close to you that your feet are almost touching and he is not does nothing to immediately move away from you.

He might even pull a section of hair away from your face if he really wants to get close to you

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Step 6. See if his face lights up when he talks to you

See if her lips are parted slightly. It is a very classic sign of attraction. If she likes you, her lips will part when you exchange looks or when you speak. See if his nostrils are slightly dilated when you speak. Check to see if her eyebrows are raised a bit when you answer her. These are all signs that his face is lighting up because he really has a crush on you.

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Step 7. See if he's still in front of you

If you are standing, see if his head, shoulders, and feet are all pointing in your direction. If the boy is interested in you, this is his way of showing you that he wants to be closer to you. He has no loving disposition towards you if he looks away and imperceptibly turns in another direction or if his feet stray from yours.

Part 3 of 3: Listen to what he says

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Step 1. See if he hears from you

Did you hear that he asked your friends to hear from you? Did he ask if you have a boyfriend? If so, you are attracting it. It can be quite difficult to tell if he has heard from you or not without asking questions yourself, as it becomes obvious that you want to know because you like him. But if you yourself have inadvertently heard that he was hearing from you, it clearly means that he is interested in you.

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Step 2. See if he starts talking nonsense

He might be so lost in his attraction that he might end up talking pointlessly about his passion for Star Trek or his relationship with his little sister. This very cute type of behavior comes from being so enamored with you that he is no longer even able to control what comes out of his mouth. He might even apologize for saying this or tell you that he doesn't quite know why he is telling you all this because he is afraid of being taken for a fool in front of you.

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Step 3. See if he confides in you

If you attract him, he might reveal some things to you that he normally never tells anyone. This is because he wants to get to know you better and would like you to know more about his account. If you catch him confiding in you or even telling you something as innocuous as the fact that he never told anyone or it has been years since he mentioned it again, this is probably because he feels really attracted to you and wants you to know more about him.

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Step 4. See if he speaks to you in a lower tone

Studies have shown that men speak in a lower voice when talking to a woman they are attracted to. The next time you have a chat with someone you are interested in, check their tone of voice. Compare it to the one he adopts to talk to colleagues or other women and see if there is a difference. If so, he's likely attracted to you!

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Step 5. See if he consistently gives you subtle compliments

He might not be so direct that he declares that you are sexy and that he is horribly attracted to you. However, he might give you more subtle compliments to let you know that you really are attracted to him. He might tell you that your hair color is one of a kind, that your laughter is contagious, or that he appreciates that you are always in a good mood. See if he has given you several compliments recently, he might want to send you a message.

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Step 6. See if he laughs for no reason when he is near you

If you attract him, he'll definitely laugh more just because he's happy to be around you. You could say something not exactly funny and he might laugh out loud or you might even say something that wasn't meant to be funny and he might just laugh out of nervousness. These are all signs that you are attracting him.

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