How to make a boy think of you: 10 steps (with pictures)

How to make a boy think of you: 10 steps (with pictures)
How to make a boy think of you: 10 steps (with pictures)

When you like a boy, you want him to think of you just as much as you think of him. But how can you be sure to mark your mind long after you've said goodbye?


Part 1 of 3: appealing to your senses

Make a Guy Think About You Step 1

Step 1. Look him in the eye

Looking him in the eye could spark sparks between the two of you. Don't try to delve into his soul, you might make him uncomfortable, but if you manage to meet his gaze from across the room or catch his gaze when you speak, you might. have a lot of effect.

Try to meet her gaze, then smile as you look away. Then watch it again

Make a Guy Think About You Step 2

Step 2. Touch him when he isn't expecting it

Touch promotes attraction and may be enough to speed up a person's heart rate. These are sensations similar to those you experience when you fall in love. By finding subtle ways to come into physical contact with this boy, you will succeed in making an impression on his mind.

  • Sit next to him, so that your shoulders or legs are lightly touching.
  • "Accidentally" brush his arm while trying to pick up something, or lightly touch his fingers when giving him something.
  • Touch his arm to get his attention or to emphasize a point or when he says something funny.
Make a Guy Think About You Step 3

Step 3. Say his name

Don't say her name at the start of every sentence, only occasionally during your conversations. This will attract his attention, create a feeling of intimacy between the two of you and remind him that you are only thinking of him.

  • If he says something that makes you laugh or blush, say his name softly as you laugh.
  • Nicknames can be fun too. By giving it a little name that only you can use, you will set your relationship apart.
Make a Guy Think About You Step 4

Step 4. Wear a subtle scent of your own

Don't drown in the scent: if the smell is too strong, it will become repulsive and could even cause headaches or allergic reactions. Apply just a little dab so he can smell your scent when he gets closer to you. His mind will associate your presence with this sweet scent.

Consider choosing a scent that he might encounter when he's not with you. Try a scent of rose or lavender or even coconut or pumpkin pie. When he walks past a rose bush, he will instantly think of you

Part 2 of 3: stay independent

Make a Guy Think About You Step 5

Step 1. Live your life

Don't spend your time hoping to hear from them. Your life without him should be interesting and busy. The biggest mistake you can make is waiting for a boy to make your life funnier and more exciting. You would then spend way too much time thinking about this boy and in all fairness you would come across as a rather boring girl. Be busy living your life and you will make her want to be closer to you.

By showing him that you are an independent and interesting person, he will be flattered that you want to spend time with him, not because you need him to make your life interesting, but because you choose to be with him

Make a Guy Think About You Step 6

Step 2. Be yourself

Don't try to be different from who you really are to please a boy. If he doesn't immediately realize that you are playing a role, it will only be a matter of time. Feeling good about yourself will help you breathe confidence, which is irresistible.

  • If you hate soccer when it's the boy's passion for you, don't pretend you're a big fan of the sport. If you don't know much about soccer, ask him to share his knowledge. If you like football, that makes you one more thing in common, but you have every right to not like the sport. Be honest.
  • If this guy usually dates feminine girls, but you're more of a tomboy, don't change your personality to make him notice you. If you manage to get his attention because you're interesting and funny, you'll know he likes you because of your personality, not just because you match his "style."
Make a Guy Think About You Step 7

Step 3. Don't overthink it

By continually asking yourself if he thinks of you as much as you think of him, you will burn yourself out and hurt and your self-esteem will take a hit. You shouldn't suffer for a boy! Focus on your life and don't worry too much about what's going to happen next.

Don't let your interest in this guy stop you from doing the things you love to do and changing yourself. Do the things that make you who you are

Part 3 of 3: stay engraved in your mind

Make a Guy Think About You Step 8

Step 1. Ask him questions about himself

And listen carefully to his answers. Most people do indeed like to talk about themselves. And it is very nice that a person is sincerely interested in our opinions and experiences and wants to hear what we have to say. Ask him questions about his passions or about his favorite music group or movie. People generally have a very positive opinion of people who ask them about themselves.

Don't forget to participate. The conversation shouldn't just revolve around him. Share your own ideas and opinions (and don't think you have to always agree with him)

Make a Guy Think About You Step 9

Step 2. Don't play the inaccessible

You might think that flirting with other guys will show her that you are wanted and have other options, but this technique rarely works. Research has shown that we are more attracted to people who are selective. So if you are in a group and you give the guy you like a big smile and pay no attention to the other boys, you will pique his interest.

That doesn't mean you should be rude or mean to other boys, or even ignore them. But if you thought you had to flirt with another guy to make the one you like jealous, reconsider your strategy

Make a Guy Think About You Step 10

Step 3. Keep it a bit of a mystery

If he knows everything about you as soon as he meets you, he will lose his impatience to learn more about you. To do this, do not fully disclose yourself right away. Don't constantly call her or text her too often. Give her time and space to think about you and ask herself what you are doing. You will thus arouse his curiosity.

Don't ignore him or be cold with him, but don't be available all the time either


  • Be sure of yourself or if you are not, at least try to feign confidence!
  • Don't go too fast and don't invite her out too early.
  • If you want to date him, let him know in a subtle and playful way that you would like to accompany him on one of his outings. Knowing that you have to see each other soon, he will most likely be thinking of you.
  • Boys are very attracted to girls who know what they are doing. Make sure you know what you are getting yourself into!

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