Texting a girl on Snapchat can be just as stressful as talking to her in person. To bond between the two of you, you'll need to add her on Snapchat first and send her some very simple snaps. Once you and this girl chat regularly on the platform, you can start a real conversation and talk about your interests, your lives, etc. Thanks to the filters, you can bring diversity, humor and a touch of creativity to your snaps.
Method 1 of 3: Make a connection
Step 1. Add her to Snapchat
Open Snapchat and click on the little ghost at the top of the screen. In the menu that will appear, click on "add friends". After that, you can add them using their username, phone number (so you will need to already have them) or with a special Snapchat code.
- If you don't know her username, number, or Snapchat code, you might find her in a mutual friend's friend list.
- Avoid adding it on the same day on different platforms, like Snapchat, Twitter, and Instagram. You might frighten him.
Step 2. Send him some very simple snaps
After adding it, wait a few days to send it a first snap. If you snap her right now, you will look desperate. After the first snap, send him a snap every other day, such as your dog eating snow, street performers, or the pile of math homework you have left to finish.
By sending her snaps regularly, she will come to expect to hear from you. This will naturally cause it to respond to your snaps
Step 3. Gradually increase the frequency of your snaps
As you get to know her better through your snapshot trades, you and her will come to trade more frequently. Sending her too many snaps early on will risk pushing her away, but if she keeps replying to you, she probably wants the conversation to continue.
Step 4. Tailor your responses to the situation
If she answers you, let the conversation flow naturally, as if you were chatting in person. Ask her questions about the topics she discusses, to show her that you are listening to her.
Show him what you love, what you do, and what matters to you with your snaps
Step 5. Avoid trite and outdated expressions
Phrases like "Hey, are you okay? ", " What are you doing ? " and, what's new ? Will not attract his attention and will not really invite him to respond. The weird and overly silly remarks might also make him ignore your snap.
- Instead of saying "hey, are you okay?" ", Send him a picture of a hen with the message" what's egg? "
- Go for a friendly and playful tone. For example, write "they will never catch me!" », With a photo of a police car passing in front of you.
Method 2 of 3: Keep the conversation going
Step 1. Talk about what you have in common
It will be easier for you to talk about topics that interest you both. Think about her hobbies, the clubs she participates in, and her goals. These dots will make the perfect springboards for a full Snapchat conversation. Here are some topics you might want to talk about:
- the music;
Step 2. Tell him a story through your snapshots
This will be a good way to get him to take more interest in the messages you send him. For example, if you find yourself in a very busy place, pretend to escape the crowds. Take a picture of your deserted workplace and add the caption “a busy workday” to get their attention.
Show her how your day is going. For example, if you work in a restaurant, take a photo at the start of the shift, during the midday rush hour, and before you leave the premises. This will show him how busy you have been
Step 3. Comment on their stories on Snapchat
As you and her are just starting to snap, comment on her stories every once in a while. As you begin to engage with her more, comment more often. Don't try to be funny or wacky in all of your comments. If she posts a story of her playing with her dog, you might just say "this is the cutest dog I've ever seen!""
Comments will be good opportunities to ask questions. If you notice she was at a concert, ask her "who was performing?" »She will probably answer you and you will be able to start talking about music
Step 4. Look for opportunities to start a conversation
Snap them every time your favorite song is on the radio. Thus, when it hears the music, it will send you a snap and the exchange will continue. To start a conversation, include in your snaps:
- cute little animals;
- things you and she love (a car, a book, a dish);
- familiar places (like your school or the local supermarket);
- common acquaintances (like your mutual friends).
Step 5. Don't get angry for an ignored snap
Typically, people take snaps less seriously than texting or making phone calls. In fact, some people don't even open all the snaps they receive. If the person you're talking to ignores your snaps, don't take it too seriously. And when you're really busy yourself, don't feel pressured to respond to its snaps.
Method 3 of 3: Use the different options and respect your limits
Step 1. Add filters, for a comic and artistic effect
On Snapchat, you can choose from many visual and audio filters, which will allow you to modify your snaps. For example, you could use the dog filter on a photo of yourself and add the message “I'm hungry and you? It would be very cute!
- To access the filters, open camera mode, click on your face, hold the image and drag it to the left.
- Snapchat regularly offers new filters. Try the different filters available, to find your favorite.
Step 2. Take advantage of the Snapchat score
By snapping every day, you will gradually increase your score. By sending and receiving messages, you will see your Snapchat score increase. Like most Snapchat users, she'll likely want to increase her score. This will greatly encourage him to respond to you.
By gradually increasing the frequency of your exchanges, she and you will increase your scores
Step 3. Respect their limits
Snapchat allows for sending videos, which makes some people push the limits. For some people it is okay to go shirtless, while for others it is a lack of respect. By sending inappropriate messages on Snapchat, you risk being excluded from the platform.
It is generally not a good idea to share private story snaps
Step 4. Add links to your snaps
When you create your snaps, you will see a small paperclip appear on the right side of the screen. By clicking on it, you will be able to add links to your snaps. This will allow you to include memes, sites, and more in your snaps.
This option will be perfect when you send her the photo of something she would like to buy. For example, you could include a link to a site where she can purchase the shoes you sent her a picture of
Step 5. Surprise her with a funny voice
The voice filters will allow you to take a high and funny voice, low and manly, mechanical like that of a robot and many more. To access the voice filters, click on the small speaker in the lower left corner of the screen.