How to be that girl: 9 steps (with pictures)

How to be that girl: 9 steps (with pictures)
How to be that girl: 9 steps (with pictures)

Do you see this girl? The one who doesn't overdo it and always makes a good impression. She's the type of girl you'd write songs for. She is pretty, unique and sweet, all without being honeyed or fake. If you want to become this type of girl, take inspiration from her different characteristics!


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Step 1. Choose a suitable hair style

Choose a cut that looks good on you. You can be inspired by the stars or even the people around you. Ask your friends if they think a certain cut would suit you and ask your hairdresser for advice. The next time you go to the hairdresser, bring a photo of the star or friend whose hairstyle you like. Ask for a similar cut, while listening to the professional's advice. Prefer a light balayage to strands that are too marked, which will be out of date. Most hair colors will benefit from warming up. Ask for a rich and subtle shade.

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Step 2. Take care of your skin

Keeping your face clean is important - bad skin is any girl's worst nightmare. Ask your dermatologist for product recommendations. Never have a dirty skin. Wash and moisturize your face in the morning and especially in the evening. In fact, your skin will be much softer and healthier in the morning. If you have real skin problems, see a dermatologist and ask for treatment advice.

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Step 3. Apply very light makeup

Start by getting the Beauty Guide from Sephora. Keep in mind that it is always better not to wear enough makeup than to wear too much makeup. For a luminous complexion, choose a pale pink blush. Camouflage your imperfections, dark circles and redness with concealer, but only apply your foundation to the areas where it is needed. And if you wear a lot of makeup, skip the gloss: the result would be too heavy! Wear a pink nude lipstick to discreetly highlight your lips. If you are blonde, avoid black and colorful mascaras and go for brown.

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Step 4. Choose quality clothes

Some people naturally have style… and some don't. Keep one rule in mind: wear no more than 4 colors and wear at least two pieces of the same color. For example, let's say you wear a loose yellow shirt, a ruffled pink skirt or blue embroidered jeans and gray sneakers. You can complete your outfit with a yellow cardigan, pearl earrings and a matching necklace and a white, yellow, blue and pink patterned bag. You will get a young and relaxed look, inspired by bohemian trends. Listen to Coco Chanel's advice, “When it comes to accessories, the most important thing is always to remove the last one added."

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Step 5. Work on your best personality traits

This is essential. Be sure of yourself, but not arrogant. Don't put yourself down for attention. If someone asks you if you think you are beautiful, shrug your shoulders slightly and say "I think I'm pretty." Be nice to everyone, even people you don't like very much. Learn to respond effectively and confidently, without ever getting into violent discussions. Hang out with at least one nice, well-liked girl, and have a list of people you can call out every once in a while. In wanting to become popular, don't try to relive an episode of Gossip Girl.

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Step 6. Be cheerful

Laugh and smile a lot. As you walk or sit on the plane or bus, display a slight smile. You will return the image of a girl who has a cute secret, like a new lover or something. It's a fact: people who smile are more attractive than those who frown. Practice your expressions in front of a mirror.

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Step 7. Get inspired by your favorite star

Imagine that you look like her and watch a lot of movies she appears in. Subconsciously, you will soon begin to imitate his gestures.

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Step 8. Flirt

When flirting, stay real and incorporate at least one compliment into every long conversation, being careful not to overdo it. Boys love to be flattered, just like girls! If you invite a guy out and he refuses, stay calm and cool.

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Step 9. Enjoy life

It's a cliché, but it's true: life is short. Carpe Diem. A friend suggests that you go out and have fun while you're sulking? Stop frowning and go for it! Otherwise, you will regret it later. Always seize the opportunities that present themselves to you.


  • If you have very pale skin, avoid dyeing your hair a very cool color unless your eyes are light in color. To make your eyes pop, choose a rich and warm hair color and wear brown eyeliner.
  • Know that your natural hair color is the one that will generally look best on your skin and eyes.
  • Don't be a snob!
  • Always prefer discreet jewelry. Pearls, diamonds and small pendants, for example.
  • If you have brown eyes, wear coppers, bronzes, and champagne hues. If you have blue eyes, prefer purples or a shade of blue darker than your eyes. If your eyes are green or hazel, wear brown, apricot, or dark green.
  • When you're wrong, don't be afraid to admit it.
  • If your skin, eyes, and hair are warm in color, wear cool colors. If you are rather pale, prefer warm colors.
  • If you have blue eyes, avoid light blue and light pink eye shadows. The result would not be harmonious and will not highlight your eyes.
  • In the end, do what you want and be yourself! Nothing forces you to dye your hair a certain color or act like your favorite star. The most important thing will be to be sure of yourself!
  • Don't try to be a whole different person to become that girl. Accept yourself as you are, physically and mentally. If you try too hard to change, it will show, and you will seem like you're desperate to become popular.

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