How to have a girlfriend in elementary school

How to have a girlfriend in elementary school
How to have a girlfriend in elementary school
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Want to have a girlfriend, but you don't know how? No problem ! Learn how to choose the right person and how to seduce them to agree to be with you.

Steps

Part 1 of 2: Choosing the right person

If you already know who you want to seduce, go straight to part two: ask them to be your girlfriend!

Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 1

Step 1. Get to know the girls in your school better

The more girls you know, the more choices you will have.

  • Take advantage of lunch breaks and recreations to approach as many girls as possible.
  • If you don't know how to approach a girl, find out who her friends are and befriend them. This will give you a chance to speak with the one you are attracted to.
  • Try to relate to girls who are the same age or who are in the same class as you. If you are in third grade, you will probably be wasting your time trying to seduce a fifth or fifth grade girl.
Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 2

Step 2. Make friends with the girls you like

Now that you've met a lot of girls, you can decide which one you like the most. Try to befriend everyone by spending time with them and being nice.

  • Compliment them. Tell them you find them smart or funny and tell them you like their clothes or their hair.
  • Defend them. If someone attacks them, stand up for them so they know you are a true friend.
Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 3

Step 3. See which one thinks you are funny

The ability to make people laugh is one of the most important things when trying to have a girlfriend. When you hang out with your new friends, see if any of them make you laugh or if you make them laugh yourself. If you think a particular girl is funny and thinks the same of you in return, that's a good sign!

Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 4

Step 4. See which one likes the same things as you

It is also very important that you and your girlfriend have the same interests. You are different people and it is sure that you will not like exactly the same things, but it is better if you have certain preferences in common. For example, you may like the same sports activities or the same subjects in the classroom.

Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 5

Step 5. Make sure she is likable

You are probably close to choosing the girl you want to be with. The remaining step is to make sure she is likable. If you see a girl acting bossy or making fun of you, you can be sure that she will never become your girlfriend.

Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 6

Step 6. Choose the girl

You started out by talking to a group of girls. Then you became friends with some of them. You then tried to find out which one likes the same things as you and has fun with the same subjects. Now is the time to choose the girl you like the most.

Part 2 of 2: Asking Her To Be Your Girlfriend

Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 7

Step 1. Be presentable

Before going any further, you need to make sure that you are neat and well dressed every time you go to meet her. Girls don't like smelly boys, so before going to school or on a date you should:

  • take a bath or shower and use lots of soap
  • brush your teeth
  • wear clean clothes
Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 8

Step 2. Make sure she wants to have a boyfriend

Most people don't want to have a boyfriend until high school, so the first thing you need to do is make sure that the girl you like wants to have a boyfriend.

  • Find out from people you know who have a boyfriend or girlfriend. This way you will find the courage to ask the girl if she wants a boyfriend.
  • Ask her if she's ever thought about having a boyfriend, but don't tell her it's because you want to be with her. You risk scaring him.
  • If she tells you that she doesn't want a boyfriend, ask her why.
  • If she asks you if you want a girlfriend, tell her you wouldn't mind, but you're not in a rush to have one either.
Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 9

Step 3. Let it go, if she tells you that she doesn't want a boyfriend

DO NOT try to convince her to become your girlfriend. She may only hate you because you did not respect her choice and other girls may hate you too. NEVER force a girl to do something she doesn't like.

Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 10

Step 4. Arrange a meeting with your friends and girlfriends

If she's okay with having a boyfriend, you should try spending time with her outside of school. However, you shouldn't be too aggressive from the start. Rather than inviting her to your home alone, ask your friends and family to drop by. This will give you a chance to spend more time with her without it sounding weird.

Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 11

Step 5. Be nice to her friends

When they are alone, girls talk about boys, so you need to make sure that her friends say good things about you. No girl wants to be with a boy who doesn't like his friends. This step is crucial.

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Step 6. Set up a one-on-one meeting

If the group meeting is going well, the next step will be to spend some time alone with her. Remember: this isn't a real date yet, and you shouldn't act like she's your girlfriend just because you're hanging out.

  • Find fun talking points. Talk about funny things that happened at school or watch a show you both love.
  • Talk about the things you have in common. If you are in the same class or if you like to do the same things outside of class, you can talk about it to avoid feeling uncomfortable during your meetings.
Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 13

Step 7. Talk to him about how you are feeling

Also ask her how she feels. People who are together are close and they don't hesitate to talk openly about their feelings. If you get into the habit of telling the girl you like about what makes you happy or sad, she will start to think of you more as a boyfriend.

Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 14

Step 8. Give him a gift

By giving her a gift, you show her that you are thinking of her. If it's a gift she can use, she'll think of you every time she uses it. Think about what she likes to do.

  • If she likes to draw, give her some nice markers.
  • If she likes nice socks, give her a pair that you like. She will feel that special way.
Get a Girlfriend in Elementary School Step 15

Step 9. Ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend

Obviously, if you want her to become your girlfriend, you have to ask her. This is probably the step you dread the most, but there are a number of things you can tell her before getting to the heart of the matter.

  • You are one of my best friends and I think you are really smart and funny.
  • I noticed that we always have a good time together and I would like to spend even more time with you.
  • I feel like I can talk to you about things that I can't tell other people.
  • We have a lot in common and I really appreciate all of your friends.
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Step 10. Don't stop being friends if she refuses

Remember: most people probably haven't had their boyfriend this young and she may not be ready yet. Just remember that you can't force her to do something she doesn't like.

Advice

  • If she says she's not interested in you, ask read why and don't get mad at her.
  • If you like certain things that she likes, you can do them together. For example, if she likes to draw and you like to draw, you can draw together when you first meet face to face.
  • Show her you care, keep eye contact, and show her that you care about her priorities. It is important that you show him the real you.
  • If she rejects you, chances are she feels too young to have a boyfriend! Do not forget that you are also young and that you still have several years ahead of you!

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